What You Don't Need at Your Wedding. Legally, all you need for a wedding is a visit to the county clerk’s office, and whatever else your local government requires. Check here.) Everything else is optional. Of course, some things are more optional than others. Most weddings these days skip the garter toss; many skip the bridesmaids and groomsmen, and some even skip the flowers.

What matters is that you pick the right elements to keep to make you and your guests happy. A gift registry. Plenty of couples skip the gift registry, because they’re not moving out of their parents’ homes without a penny to their name. But more traditional (i. In your invitations, note that gifts are not expected, but give some guidance for those who insist, so you don’t end up getting something both expensive and unwanted. A tiny registry with medium- ticket items will make it clear that gifts are truly optional. Having a registry for your wedding can be complicated, and you might end up with a bunch of stuff…Read more Read. Everyone you’ve ever known.

If you don’t actually want someone at your wedding, don’t invite them out of obligation or guilt. There’s a decent chance they’ll be relieved they don’t have to come. Even at a large wedding, you’ll find yourself trimming the list. Lifehacker has some great shortcuts for picking someone to cut. For example, don’t invite anyone you wouldn’t take out to dinner. Putting together a guest list for a wedding is more stressful than it needs to be, especially when…Read more Read. Bridesmaids and groomsmen.

There’s a good chance you’re already skipping these. And your friends will probably be relieved to learn they don’t have to buy matching dresses or whatever weird thing groomsmen do. But do assign duties to a friend or two, like holding the bouquet, helping with makeup, and running your reception playlist.

Bachelor/ette parties. Just as obviously, you don’t have to do the traditional rager with penis pops or strippers. I personally recommend a small gathering of close friends—the ones who would have been in your wedding party—doing an activity you already love. And feel free to organize your own. For example, my friends and I nerded out with a game of Dungeons & Dragons.

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Consider a joint party. If you’re having a small wedding, this can be your chance to let more friends celebrate, even if you can’t fit them in the ceremony and reception.

It’s also a great choice for couples who share a friend group. All this goes for the bridal shower too. A priest. If you’re not religious, whom do you get to marry you? Theoretically, anyone you want.

American Marriage Ministries is a church based solely on the freedom of all people to marry, “regardless of race, sexual identity, nationality, socioeconomic status, or religious background.” Click on your state and AMM will tell you how to get ordained to legally officiate a wedding. You might want an authority figure or mentor from your life. Two of my friends were married by their former professor; my wife and I were married by a close friend. Have a meeting with your chosen officiant to explain what you’d like in your ceremony, and what you expect from them. Some states allow other un- ordained officiants without, like a judge, state congressional member, mayor, or notary public. Maine even lets lawyers do it. Check your state’s rules.

Or maybe you just want to hire someone. Search on Wedding. Wire or The Knot, where officiants can cost anywhere from $1. We all know how easy it is to become an officiant for your friend’s wedding, right? Just a couple…Read more Read. A long ceremony. The officiant should have a few words prepared, and you should say your vows aloud, but everything else is optional. You don’t need any songs or poems or speeches.

Since our officiant was my wife’s longtime friend, I had my closest friend give a brief speech. Our ceremony was done in about fifteen minutes. Assigned seats. For the reception, try assigning guests to tables, but not specific seats. You’ll save a lot of planning time and give your guests some freedom, while still saving them the work of finding and gathering all their friends. If your wedding crowd is small and you’re willing to serve dinner buffet or cocktail style, you can ignore assigned seats altogether. This is especially helpful when many of your attendees have overlapping friend groups.

If you’re just doing small plates and passed canapés, you don’t even need as many seats as you have guests, which can save you some space and money. For buffet style, you’ll still need 1. New York wedding planner Amanda O’Callaghan, as everyone will sit down at once with their loaded dinner plates. Even if you have open seating, advise the wedding planners at Significant Events of Texas, reserve a table for your wedding party if they’ll enter the reception after the other guests.

The singles table. Sticking all the single people at one reception table is an awkward, and honestly kind of horny, move for a wedding couple.

The Knot recommends balancing singles and couples at tables, making sure no solo attendee is surrounded by couples. Servers. Cut down on waitstaff by going buffet style. Watch Las Viudas De Los Jueves Streaming.

Don’t pay waitstaff to take drink orders either; a bartender is plenty, says Rick Webb, author of Man Nup: A Groom’s Guide to Heroic Wedding Planning. Your guests will be fine ordering their own drinks.

Alcohol. If you’re not comfortable with drinking, you don’t owe your guests booze. Guests who usually drink will be stressed out by a dry wedding, but they’ll survive. Just warn them ahead of time.

The Knot suggests you keep it interesting with mocktails and fun food options. The mocktails are especially helpful for the friends who snuck in a flask. Unless you’re having an extremely quick and casual wedding, a cash bar is obnoxious. If you’re trying to save money, consider some other options.

Inside Weddings recommends finding a venue that lets you (or your guests) bring your own alcohol, or hosting a brunch wedding where people will naturally drink less. Cake“I’ve thrown away so much uneaten cake,” says the wedding planner O’Callaghan. Couples are tending to got to less traditional desserts such as pudding shots, doughnuts, and pie.” If your venue lets you, outsource dessert to one of your favorite ice cream place or bakery; my wife and I hired NYC food truck Wafels & Dinges. A DJGood DJs can adapt to any crowd, unearth obscure jams, and provide extra entertainment. None of this is necessary at a wedding.

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